Showing posts with label Scott Coner. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Scott Coner. Show all posts

Friday, May 20, 2016

We Have It All... Just Like Bogie and Bacall


By Scott Coner
Country Artist

         A painful childhood does not create talent, and neither do mistakes that we make along the way. An artist may develop cynicism, a mistrust of authority, or an allergy towards phonies, but the development of art begins I think in the heart. Humphrey Bogart happened to be one of those children that came from a broken home. He grew up on the fashionable side of Manhattan and even summered in his family’s Victorian “cottage” in upstate New York. To the rest of the world, the Bogart family was upper middle class people enjoying the American dream. But to Humphrey and his sisters, they had an existence that included marital screaming, neglect, and abusive servants, complicated by the drinking and morphine addiction of both parents.

         Because of this darkness, Humphrey didn’t do well in any of the private schools he attended. His relationships were always on the rails because of his own trust issues. But in the midst of his problems, he found a sense of duty that characterized his personal life and motivated his greatest characters. In other words, I suppose, “Bogie” didn’t just become an actor. He used that emotional combination of pain, mistrust and anger to paint a portrait on the silver screen that the entire world would eventually attach itself to. Mr. Bogart never fully understood the interest that the rest of the world showed him. He was quoted as saying, “The higher a monkey climbs, the more you can see his tail."

         As with any artist or any other life, Bogart had his share of high points and low points. Classic movies and completely forgettable flops came and went. Marriages and divorces, embarrassing tabloids, regrets and joyous occasions all colored his life into one unforgettable legend.

Scott Coner on his farm in Indiana (Photo by Cynnamae Media Productions)

         Maybe in the end, after all of these years, we see a man that the world identified with. Maybe the key to his legend was he was just enough hero to admire from afar, and just enough of a regular guy to recognize up close, Because of his imperfections, his generation identified with him. They counted on his character to do the right thing. They loved him simply because he was just a regular guy.

         I look around at our society these days, and I see a world that has come a long way since “Casablanca”. In a way, we have come such a distance that we are about to repeat ourselves. The speed at which we run, the coldness that we all endure from this technological state, and the lack of morality that our culture has, may have painted us all into a corner. Even though we live in a complex world, when you bring it back to basics, we are in need of a hero. We need a new direction to take. We need something to save us from ourselves. This world we live in has become too confusing due to political correctness and the complete lack of core values in our culture.

         Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to somehow get back to the basics. Wouldn’t it be nice to find yourself in a world that still had some class? A world where it was common again to hold the door open for women, to pray before our meals, to pledge our allegiance to our country that has offered so much to each of us. Humphrey Bogart shined the brightest during some of our country's darkest hours. Our world was at war. American soldiers were dying by the thousands, and our country prayerfully and quietly did the right things in order to be certain our soldiers had what was needed to win the war. We stood behind our troops, we trusted our country's leaders, and we were willing to lay certain opinions aside in order to be in compliance with what was just and needed.




         During those challenging years, those who stayed behind in the United States to support our troops and meet whatever challenges came up, found moments of escape in the “Silver Screen”. Then, like now, there was something special that happened when Hollywood brought us her best. Humphrey Bogart was an actor, but at the same time, he was also an artist. His artistry, his appeal, gave the greatest generation a moment of badly needed hope. This regular, short, little man was a giant among his peers. His art simply put, allowed Americans to escape from the worry and sadness that seemed to blanket the globe at the time.

         These days, although we aren’t in the midst of a world war, we are certainly at war. There are those out there who want to see us brought to our knees. They want us to be punished because we are great, and good, and powerful, and Christian. Through my eyes, I see a country that is in need of direction. We need to find ourselves again. We need to find a way to pull together and leave certain differences in the dust. We need to see the things we have in common rather than the things that tear us apart. We need to pray more and talk out loud a little bit less. We need to find our muscle and leave our weakness on the porch. We need to turn our music up and turn those that oppose us off. We need to learn to love each other again and fight like a junkyard dog when someone else opposes one of us. We are still one, we have just forgotten. We are still under the shadow of the Cross, we have only lost our focus.

         If you are an artist, I recommend that you allow your art to promote these things. We need purity instead of filth. We thirst for winning instead of constantly losing. We need heroes these days. We need men and women who stand for what is solidly right. The art of this moment should lift your country and her character up. If you are an actor, a photographer, a singer or a songwriter, a painter or a model, an actress or a director, the world needs you right now. Stand up with what you have and be a hero. Be like Mr. Bogart. Just don’t "Bogart" that… What was that my friend?  I must have lost my focus.  
     
         Scott Coner is a country singer-songwriter who has worked in the studio with legendary artists such as Tanya Tucker, T. Graham Brown and Charlie Daniels. You can learn more about him and hear his music at www.Facebook.com/ScottConerMusic, www.YouTube.com/user/ScottConer, and www.ScottConer.com. Follow Scott at www.Twitter.com/ScottConer.

Sunday, May 15, 2016

Behind the Pale


By Scott Coner
Country Artist

(Note: Scott Coner will be releasing a new music video of the rock classic "Whiter Shade of Pale" on May 17. In this blog article, he tells us why he recorded the song for his forthcoming EP.)
 
         So many things attach themselves to us when we are young. If you have read my blog articles, I have told you several of the stories about why I have chosen certain songs that I have recorded “cover” versions of. I don’t do many, but when I do one, it’s a song that matters to me quite a bit.

         A couple months ago, I took three songs that I wrote to Nashville along with one song that I did not write. The song is called “Whiter Shade of Pale”, and it is one of those songs that matter to me more than I can say. Originally, the song was released in May 1967, but in my world it made its debut around 1983 on a soundtrack for a movie called “The Big Chill”. I have never seen the whole movie, but the music sure caught my attention. I had a cassette of the soundtrack and drove around in my truck listening to it over and over again. 


         I can’t tell you exactly what it is about the song that I love so much. It’s a combination of the organ, the melody, and the lyrics I suppose. I have no earthly idea what the song is about, but I know how it speaks to my heart. It instills a feeling that few songs have ever done. 

         As we began the process of putting the song together in the studio, I wanted to hold on to the “signature lick” from the keyboards and keep the song at the same beats per minute. Other than that, I wanted to come at it differently. The original drums remind me of Ringo when the Beatles played live. There was far more splash cymbal than I could use. My direction to the drummer was to attack it like John Bonham on a very simple, stripped-down set. His set was a mix of a 1950s-era kick and a 1970s set of toms that had recently been refinished. The drums themselves were mic'd pretty close to the same way Bonham had his set-up in the studio. Like I have said, if your drums don’t sound huge, you’re already in the weeds before you even begin.
 
         We came at the vocals differently than most would imagine I think. Carol Chase, who sings back-up vocals for Lynyrd Skynrd, opened the verse all the way to the first chorus. I took the second verse, then dropped to a lower harmony on the final two choruses to allow Carol to be on top.  Currently, we have guitar tracks all over the place, and I considered putting a loop deep into the mix. We waited a few weeks before we started mixing. I wanted it to be fresh when we began. Logan Schlegel prepared a rough mix.


(Check back on May 17 to watch the "Whiter Shade of Pale" video featuring Scott Coner with Lynyrd Skynyrd background vocalist Carol Chase.)

         Carol brought a really fresh edge to the song with her raspy, bluesy delivery. She had asked me to listen to Annie Lenox’s cover, and I did. But I am satisfied that Carol is a better singer than Miss Lenox, and a lot of the processed sound she used on her project sounds dated to me. I also briefly studied a version by Willie and Waylon, but sadly, I felt like it was one of the weakest cuts they ever did together. It didn’t matter anyway. We were going to come at the song our way and any other interpretations didn’t matter.

         As I have said in other writings, my intention has never been an attempt to beat the original cut. That would only spell failure. Instead, I come at a classic as if it has never actually been released and nobody has ever heard the song but me. I know that sounds a little bit crazy, but in my mind, I’m visiting an imaginary universe that doesn’t have “Whiter Shade” in it yet. It becomes our job then to play off of the original, but not copy it. We don’t do Karaoke.

         I hope you enjoy our attempt at the song. Believe me when I tell you that doing this song is the highest compliment I could ever pay Procol Harum. This song was a true game-changer for me. As I write this blog article, I must tell you that I can’t wait to release our version of the song.
     
                  Scott Coner is a country singer-songwriter who has worked in the studio with legendary artists such as Tanya Tucker, T. Graham Brown and Charlie Daniels. You can learn more about him and hear his music at www.Facebook.com/ScottConerMusic, www.YouTube.com/user/ScottConer, and www.ScottConer.com. Follow Scott at www.Twitter.com/ScottConer.

Sunday, May 8, 2016

Why Worry, Why Wait?


By Scott Coner
Country Artist


Why worry? There should be laughter after pain...
There should be sunshine after rain...
These things have always been the same...
So why worry now?
                                                        -- Dire Straits


            How many times have you silently promised yourself that you would get around to it “one of these days”? Do you have some crystal ball promising you a tomorrow, or are you simply putting off the hard stuff? I spent the first half of my life spending it like pocket change. I had some good times now and then, but I lacked a responsible focus. Instead, I would find a quiet place and dream and promise myself that one day I would finally pursue my own goals and stop wasting my time doing what everyone else expected me to do. Well, by the time I hit my late thirties, I was starting to lose my mind. I felt like the sand in the glass was running out, I was trapped, and it was over for me. The day I finally hit the wall full speed, there were parts of me scattered all around. I was either going to have to make some immediate and very specific changes, or throw myself in a pond holding a rock. There was just not going to be a middle of the road for me.

Scott Coner (Photo by Cynnamae Media Productions)

            There was a lesson there for me, and looking back now, I believe it was worth learning and waiting for, but I definitely waited longer than necessary. I got my own lens into focus. I began to categorize exactly what it was going to take to get a shot at music and take my whole family along for the ride. I want and need for my wife to be with me. She brings with her a massive amount of insight and talent in business and photography. She also calms my spirit. I want both of our daughters to get an insight at the vast amount of possibilities in the business itself, the travel, the people, and the beauty of it all. I wanted both of my parents to be there as well. I want us all to be a part of the journey. I want us to grow together and share memories for the rest of our lives. At the same time of course, I want each of my loved ones to follow their own dreams and develop into who and what they are inclined to be. My wife and I will support our daughters to chase whatever dream God has placed upon their heart. We have actually encouraged them to leave our little town and take the entire world in. There will be no sitting on the ledge waiting to live for anyone in my family as long as I have anything to say about it.


A song about believing... "If The Stars Burn Out"


            The reason I share this part of me with you the reader is this: I want you to follow your heart. I know that you and I aren’t acquainted, but I believe that you may be reading this for a reason. There is something special about you, something that sets you apart from the rest of us. I have met so many truly kind and interesting people through the years, it would be hard to narrow it down to any specific circumstance. But the one commonality these people all shared was that they were all at peace with themselves. They knew who they were, what they wanted, and where they stood.  

            I hope that you will take this day and begin to seek the change required to get on your path. We have all heard about the path with the least resistance. I know for sure that the things we want most in life require a certain amount of fire to harden our steel. The moments when we feel worn out and weak are the very times we are growing stronger and more antiquated with our own desire and direction. Don’t wait so long. Don’t put it off. None of us know what tomorrow brings, and we have to be who we are in the moment. You have a dream. You have a talent. What are you really waiting for? There is no worry in this. Put your faith in yourself and God.  Allow those that love you the opportunity to be with you and share the joys as well as sorrows. Allow them to see you meet your challenges. Let them see you fail along the way because there will most certainly be missteps. But most of all, let them be with you and celebrate with you those moments when the worry stops, the rain subsides, and the sun begins to shine. If you will take these steps, I promise you a feeling of calm you have never felt before. Put your worries aside, and allow yourself to live a more fulfilling existence while you are here on this earth. Don’t you worry! Just go jump in the puddles that the storms leave behind, and smile until your face begins to hurt. 

         Scott Coner is a country singer-songwriter who has worked in the studio with legendary artists such as Tanya Tucker, T. Graham Brown and Charlie Daniels. You can learn more about him and hear his music at www.Facebook.com/ScottConerMusic, www.YouTube.com/user/ScottConer, and www.ScottConer.com. Follow Scott at www.Twitter.com/ScottConer.

Saturday, May 7, 2016

My Mom, The Queen of Cool


 
By Scott Coner
Country Artist

            It’s been a long time since I was a kid. Years and years have come and gone, but so many fond memories as seen through the eyes of a little boy remain. I remember my mom watching a small black and white television as she ironed our clothes in the kitchen. I seem to remember Marlow Thomas’ “That Girl”, as well as a show out of Cincinnati called “The Bob Braun Show” and another program with a host they called “Paul Baby.” My mom would iron our clothes and sometimes talk on the telephone. But amazingly, she never took her eyes off of me. I remember her giving me “Quisp” and “Cap'n Crunch” cereals, and she also gave me SpaghettiOs sometimes for lunch. (On a side note, she recently presented me with my original SpaghettiOs spoon.)

            It was a different world in middle America when I was a little kid. The cars were still awesome, the music was still exciting, and to me at least, the world was wild and wonderful. My mom was in her mid-20s back then, and she seemed to enjoy being with me as I explored my world. I remember she bought an orange-handled butterfly net, and we would chase crawdads in the creek downtown in the park and put them in a Mason jar so I could examine them for a few minutes. She wouldn’t let me take them home for obvious reasons, but believe me when I tell you it was some pretty exciting stuff.

Scott Coner's mother holds her two granddaughters.

            I recall her trying to teach me how to tie my shoes. That must have been frustrating because I was kind of a stupid kid. She would get down on her knees and grab one of my Hush Puppies and “chase the bunny around the tree” a hundred times over. I remember wondering who and why anyone would chase a bunny around a tree. But, like I have told you, I have never been a very bright light, even though I was probably a beautiful and angelic child.  

            My mom is probably the one who turned me on to music. We had a 1963 Impala with an AM radio, and I believe that may have been a pipeline to '60s rock. I remember being so excited when The Archies were on the radio singing “Sugar, Sugar”. I also remember thinking how much I hated “My Beautiful Balloon”. Man, that song sucked and still does. She would tool around in our shiny, burgundy “Chevy”, and I stood in the back seat with my Hush Puppies on rocking out way too hard to some song about “God not making little green apples, and it don’t rain in Indianapolis in the summertime.” I still don’t know where they were going with that song, but the lyrics where cool. 

The pop hit "Sweet Mary" (one of Scott's favorite songs in 1970).

            Anyway, she would put me in my bed at night, and I freaked out every time she tried to turn my light off. You see, I have quite an imagination, and I am a pretty big chicken. This can all be validated by anyone who has had the pleasure of knowing me. Usually after 20 minutes or so I would yell in my sweetest little boy voice that I was thirsty, and every single time she would bring me my glass of water. This probably went on until I was about 19 or so, but who’s counting?
  
            I could go on and on about my mom, but I’ll spare her all of my bragging. I will tell you that if there is anything even remotely artistic or good about me, it came from her. She brought style into our little town and gave it to me. She was miles and miles ahead of all of the other kids' moms as they wore their polyester. Her natural style and coolness left all of the other women in the brush. I remember how proud I was when she occasionally showed up at my school for some event. She just brought an energy to a room that others couldn’t dream of doing.

            These days, I find myself going back in time and appreciating each and every moment. We all come from something, and I came from good parents. If I have ever hurt anyone, and I know I have, it was my fault. I can assure you I was taught better than that. If I have ever misrepresented myself, once again, that would be my fault as well. However, if my music has ever given you a reason to smile or look into your own heart... well, that would be my mom’s fault. Like I've already said, she brought all of the style and all of the cool. I was merely a recipient of good parenting and excellent musical surroundings.       

         Scott Coner is a country singer-songwriter who has worked in the studio with legendary artists such as Tanya Tucker, T. Graham Brown and Charlie Daniels. You can learn more about him and hear his music at www.Facebook.com/ScottConerMusic, www.YouTube.com/user/ScottConer, and www.ScottConer.com. Follow Scott at www.Twitter.com/ScottConer.

Sunday, May 1, 2016

All from the Memory of a Song


By Scott Coner
Country Artist

         Hardly a waking hour goes by when music doesn’t cross my mind. It is entwined in nearly everything I do and everything I am. It has been there as I have worked through the years. It has been there during painful moments, as well as happy ones. And it has been there to simply color the days I have lived in.

         So, it has always struck me as a little bit odd when I talk with someone who doesn't pay attention to the music playing around them. Instead, their world centers on something else. They may be into NASCAR, or football, or golf, or whatever. I have been to gatherings with other parents. We might be sitting on a porch or near a pool, and I try to find something that we might have in common. As I listen to them talking, I find myself beginning to drift off as they talk about their latest conquest on a golf course somewhere. I do my best to stay engaged, but I’d be lying if I said I don’t hear white noise. 

Scott Coner (Photo by Cynnamae Media Productions)

         I don’t mean to sound judgmental. It’s just the difference in people. In truth, I probably should have bought some khakis and learned how to play golf, living vicariously through some overpriced pro football team. But that's not my thing. I would never want to waste a beautiful Sunday afternoon sitting inside somewhere watching a ball game when I could instead be outside in the sun or the shade laughing, reading, or relaxing. When I do, there will be a melody playing in the background somewhere close.

         I suppose I allowed music to attach itself to me because it was something I could enjoy alone or with others. It gives me something to appreciate. It allows me the opportunity to think, to write, to listen, and to remember. In truth, the classic music is like some kind of memory card I can bring out to think about moments that have long since past. I remember dancing with our oldest daughter when she was just a little bitty girl in our living room. She would put her little sock feet on top of mine and hold me so tight as we danced to “Rocket Man”. I also remember our youngest little girl sitting in her car seat mimicking “beat” noises to a Ben Harper song before she could even talk. Those songs, those memories are tucked away in my mind and my heart. I hope to always have them to re-live as the years go past me. 

         This seems odd to say, but I have written songs of my own that have memories attached to them. When I first met my wife, she was working at a label in Brentwood, Tennessee. She and I took a drive on our first evening together just outside of Nashville and listened to an album I had just completed. In doing this, the entire album took on a new and magical meaning to me. I remember being excited and a little bit nervous for her to hear the project. It was my second album, but this time it was my sound instead of some producer calling the shots. In a way, it was a deeply personal moment she and I were able to share very early on in our relationship. I remember driving away from her that night and feeling like I could fly. Those feelings are still in between all of the grooves of those old songs for me. Even today, when I hear “Taylorsville Angel”, I still think of that night. I think of her beauty and her sweetness.

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO SCOTT CONER'S SONG, 

 
https://soundcloud.com/scott-coner/04-taylorsville-angel


         So, I suppose even though music is what I do, it’s also what holds my world together. It has been the backdrop of so much in my life there is no way I can cover it all. Some people remember what they were wearing on a certain important day. I will surely remember what song was being played. I’ll remember the joy or the sadness. I’ll remember the feeling of falling in love with my wife or how much I love my daughters. And I can do it all from the memory of a song. 

         Scott Coner is a country singer-songwriter who has worked in the studio with legendary artists such as Tanya Tucker, T. Graham Brown and Charlie Daniels. You can learn more about him and hear his music at www.Facebook.com/ScottConerMusic, www.YouTube.com/user/ScottConer, and www.ScottConer.com. Follow Scott at www.Twitter.com/ScottConer.

Sunday, April 24, 2016

What's That In Your Hand?


By Scott Coner
Country Artist



            So, at 80 years old, Moses is having a discussion with God. He is trying to convince God to use someone else.

            “I have other plans. I don’t talk well. People don’t listen to me. I’m too old.”

            To be honest, I wish I had the type of a relationship with God to actually have an open conversation like that. But God, being God, already had all of the answers. He told Moses to throw his staff to the ground. When he did, the staff turned into a snake. God told him to pick it up by the tale, and when he did, it turned back into a staff

            I believe most of us are a bit like old Moses. We have spent most of our lives being something that God can’t use. He wants us to change, but in order to truly transform, we are going to have to step out of our comfort zones a little bit.


I've recorded a cover of the classic rock tune "Locomotion"...
Let's get moving... Use your talents!


            I had spent the first half of my life doing what came natural to me. Construction had always been my primary involvement. I had moved away from the field and into the office side of things several years ago. I had a good job, I made great money, and I was comfortable. The problem was, this is not what my heart was called to do. It’s awfully hard to be content when you know you aren’t doing what you are called to do. I began to move more in the general direction of my purpose though, and I began to finally feel more at peace and less at war with myself.

            I want to be clear in saying that even though I do certain songs promoting my faith as well as family and commitment, I am involved in a broad range of music. But, I believe God has plans for me. I don’t know what they are. I don’t care what they are. I will do what God will have me to do when He gives me direction, and I look forward to the opportunity. It is a good feeling to know that God is control and that I am just along for the ride.


 
Scott Coner with his dog (Photo by Cynnamae Productions)
 
            I wonder where you stand with your own direction these days. What are you holding in your hand? Is it a simple staff, or is it the gift of baking? Do you seem to feel at your best when surrounded by people? Do you have the gift of designing? Can you take a simple little house and turn it into a beautiful home? Are you gifted on the computer? What is that you are holding in your hand? We all have God-given gifts, talents that allow us to feel alive when we use them. Maybe it’s time that you finally admit that you do have a skill that could and should be used. You might also want to remind yourself of the happiness and fulfillment that your gift actually gives you when you allow it to be brought to life.

            I am no preacher, but I am a believer. I believe that if we take a step in faith, God will be there to meet us and to support us. I think that taking these steps also has a way of strengthening our relationship with God. All I can tell you is that so far, my music has brought a lot of surprises to me. I have met some great and talented people. I have seen cities and towns I never would have been able to see. I have also been able to go to places in my mind through the process of writing that I wouldn’t have pursued had it not been for the opportunities to write and record with others.

            I am positive as you read this you have already let your mind jump once or twice to that shady little corner in your soul where you keep your talent. I hope you will get off your couch and just go for it. Nobody is asking you to part the Red Sea or pick up a snake. Just dust off your talent, and offer it up. Let it become part of you again. You never know where you will end up or what you might find. And aren’t you glad that God didn’t give you ultra small hands so you could be good at milking wild badgers? 

            Scott Coner is a country singer-songwriter who has worked in the studio with legendary artists such as Tanya Tucker, T. Graham Brown and Charlie Daniels. You can learn more about him and hear his music at www.Facebook.com/ScottConerMusic, www.YouTube.com/user/ScottConer, and www.ScottConer.com. Follow Scott at www.Twitter.com/ScottConer.

Sunday, April 17, 2016

The Wall


By Scott Coner
Country Artist

            It’s a "sight on earth" how self-made plans have a way of changing on their own. I arrived in Nashville hoping to be a songwriter. I felt that my songs were different than most. And even though I wasn’t sure if that was a good or a bad thing, I kind of used it as my calling card. One of the first guys I hired turned out to be quite a bit less than what he promised. I made the mistake of judging the book by its cover, and man was that a money and time waster. I, being the hayseed that I am, figured that since his name came to the top of the list if you googled his service, he must be a pretty good choice. He was middle aged, he had extremely nice suits, and he drove some of the finest sports cars I had ever seen. What could go wrong here? Well, to be honest, not much went right, but I finally stepped free of his storytelling and moved on.

            There have been several of those types of people since him -- The kind of people that tell you one thing, but do absolutely nothing but drive to the bank with your money as soon as you leave town. It’s heartbreaking really. It hurts you all over as you begin realizing that you have been ripped off again and again all in the name of music. I think these people may have started as honest as the next guy, but for whatever reason, they begin to realize that it is easier to steal from the innocent than actually do the right thing. I suspect they begin their Darth Vader type of existence because they don’t carry enough clout with the bigger players. So, if they are going to survive in Nashville, it will have to be on the take. 


My song/video "Nashville Song" was inspired by my experiences on Music Row


            I was one of the lucky ones. I watched the table pretty closely as the cards were dealt, and put a timer on each play. If the promises made didn’t begin to show some color within my own private allocated time, they were either put on notice or fired on the spot. The sorry truth about this type of approach is you can’t help but become cynical. You begin to question almost everything and everyone. You don’t realize it, but you begin to build a wall. And like the song says, all in all, you're just another brick in the wall.

            Before I found myself completely entombed with my self-constructed wall of sound, I began to seek a different type of clarification. I began considering other avenues, a whole new route to take. The first thing I began doing was wondering if maybe I could actually write and sing my own songs. I started taking a handful at a time into Nashville, and I decided I was going to take off where I quit several years ago. Things kind of started to get a little bit of traction, and a whole new concept was born. However, like about everything else on this planet, I still had more than my share of problems. Once again, my biggest problem was the crooks. They are thick like bluegill in a farm pond. No matter where you throw your line, they either steal the worm, or you land a fish half the size of a biscuit. The obvious decision was to begin using the white-collared criminals as bait. I began dropping their names everywhere I went. And like a miracle, they began to swim back to the safety of the shallow water because they were becoming exposed. Kind of like a cockroach, but the bug actually has a lot more class. 

 Scott Coner visits the Ryman Auditorium (Photo by Cynnamae Media Productions)


            The music kept on coming. Before long, we were truly storming several studios bringing in all kinds of talent. Musicians are kind of like ball players. The best players really like playing and hanging out with each other. So as things began to gel, clarity began to take hold. I moved as quickly as possible, and continue to do so. Instead of trying to make a big splash around Nashville or shopping for a deal, I simply focused on writing, networking and recording whenever possible. My wife, Cynthia, and I worked hard at developing social networks, videos, songs and everything that a label is supposed to do for you. One day, I began taking note of all the songs that had been recorded and written, and I was taken back by the sheer volume. We had recorded years of releases. So instead of slowing down, we are speeding up even more. My plan is to shelf another album this summer, followed by another album in the fall. We will begin traveling everywhere early 2017 and then we might find time to rest. But then again, I wouldn’t mind booking studios around the country and see what that’s like. In the midst of this, I have also been working on a few books. Yes, I know what your thinking. Why does this guy think we want to hear his songs or for that matter read his books? I have no answer for you. I just got a little bit ticked off at the establishment in Nashville and decided to do what I came to do without their help. Like most things I do, it will probably end in a fiery crash, but the noise might be worth listening to. I just didn’t want to be another brick….

         Scott Coner is a country singer-songwriter who has worked in the studio with legendary artists such as Tanya Tucker, T. Graham Brown and Charlie Daniels. You can learn more about him and hear his music at www.Facebook.com/ScottConerMusic, www.YouTube.com/user/ScottConer, and www.ScottConer.com. Follow Scott at www.Twitter.com/ScottConer.

Wednesday, April 13, 2016

Dear Jim: I’ll See You Soon…


            As soon as I woke up this morning, my wife told me that one of my uncles, Jim Thompson, passed away in the night. My family has always been a little bit “clannish”, so it hit me hard. He had battled Alzheimer’s for several years, and the last year or so had been about as bad as it can get for someone. His name was Jim. Jim and I had spent thousands of hours working side by side in my younger days. He taught me all kinds of things. Things I’ll never forget. But mostly, he just set a great example of being a good and happy man. He was the kind of man that never had to look over his shoulder for any reason at all. I loved him very much, and I hope he knew that. I’m wishing at this moment I just would’ve told him.

Scott Coner enjoys a special moment with his Uncle Jim (left) and father (right)

            I was in Florida the day I first heard about his illness. My wife was still getting dressed to go to dinner, and I wrote the song I am including with this blog, "Still Standing Here"”, before she was ready to go. (This probably sounds impressive, but sometimes my wife takes “days” to get ready to go to dinner.) The song tells the story of someone who carries a photo album each time they visit their loved one as “proof” that they had indeed spent a life together. They had laughed together, raised children together, and shared all of the good and bad life has to offer together.

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My song "Still Standing Here"

In memory of my Uncle Jim


            Early this morning, I went to the gym to get a workout in before the day truly began. As I left the parking lot, a song from the '80s that Jim had liked came on the radio. It was Elton John’s song, “I’m Still Standing”. I hadn’t heard the song since it had been on the charts years ago, but sure enough, there it was on my radio. I kind of felt like Jim was telling me he was okay and not to worry.

            I know many of you have lost loved ones. This is a pain none of us can avoid. I probably wrote this article more for me than anyone else, and I’m not going to get in the weeds. But, it has been a painful day. One of those days that is mixed with disbelief, grief and regret. But isn’t it odd that “I’m Still Standing” and “Still Standing Here” occur on the same day 30-something years apart? Jim brought me his hand tools as his illness began to progress. When I’m up to it, I’m going to go out to the barn and hold them in my own hands. Take care Jim. I’ll see you soon…

Love, Scott